…but not big ones.
In fact, David thinks it’s silly I’m even for blogging about it because he says that no one is going to notice anyway. He means that in a nice way I promise. I listen really well obviously, because here I am. Talking about it.
So let’s chat.
I started this blog in 2010. Five years ago life looked very different.
A move, a change in jobs and two kids (that no longer sleep the majority of the day) later, life is beautiful and full. Very full.
I am grateful to feel very fulfilled, but over the past couple of months my cup went from wonderfully full to overflowing. I realize I’m not the best with analogies because usually cups overflowing are good things right? But in my situation, it began to feel more like I couldn’t keep up, which turned into me feeling like I was half-assing everything trying to do it all and in response, all things suffered.
I’ve had several conversations with David on this topic over the past couple of months. Bless him because he really is supportive and goes beyond listening to help offer solutions. And I think I’ve found it. Well, at least found what will work for the foreseeable future, because the only constant is change, right?
Ok, ok, so what is this big change?
I won’t be blogging on Wednesdays anymore.
Whomp whomp.
All that build up for that? I know. Drama has always been my strong suit, right mom and dad?
…and wait. Today is Wednesday, right?
Yup- looks like I’ve screwed up this goal already.
Ok, but in all seriousness, it was really hard for me to let go of the idea of blogging 5 days a week. Call it a personal hang up, but breaking this structure felt odd. But waking up early to run straight to the computer five days a week had me feeling anxious. I want to blog better, not just more.
This is where the ‘not big changes’ comes in. I like the mix of my blog content (rule #1- write a blog that you would want to read), so I’m keeping it. I’ll still be talking food, recipes, meal planning, exercise, kids, motherhood and weekend updates for all those that care (::looks in the mirror and points to self::). But Wednesdays will be my morning to either catch up on emails (hopefully not) or to sleep all the way in until 6:00 am and enjoy a cup of whatever of the porch before the girls wake up.
I’m planning on filling my gaping hole (the drama again) of only blogging 4 days a week by bombarding you on social media instead. I’m really embracing the direct connection, response and even my rambling on periscope (@ahealthyslice) and plan to try and “scope” (see, I’m down with the lingo) every day. You can also find me on instagram, twitter and facebook where I’ll be sharing more life-casting type content/pictures/scopes.
So there it is. My not so big news.
Now I’m off to play with those babies of mine that are growing like weeds.
Enjoy your Wednesday and thank you so, SO much for reading and being the world’s best virtual friends!
Kate says
Great that you’ve found a solution… Life’s too short and as a fellow-mom I agree that both family and mom’s sanity always come first… π
Joanna says
Good for you! I’m amazed by everything you’re able to do! I’ve cut back to posting once a week – and even that can be overwhelming sometimes!
Erica D House says
I’ve also gone from 5x a week to 4-5x, and I’m about to go down to 3x a week. All of my blogging friends who’ve cut back said they’ve seen an increase in page views since they were able to produce more quality content that way. I’m also focusing more on social media outlets now versus the blog. I hate to say it but I think blogging, as we know it, may be losing favor to being more ‘social media influencers’ than bloggers.
Char @ Nutritiously Fit says
I JUST watched your scope and I think this is awesome. I love seeing you on Periscope in real time more than reading anyways — I mean that in the nicest way possible (see what I did there? haha) π
I’m joking of course, but I think this is a perfect blend. I actually think breaking up the blog halfway through the week is very..symmetrical. Love me some symmetry haha. Ok, that’s my cue to just stop. Stop now, Char.
Kathy says
Don’t beat yourself up and enjoy your change. I will miss you on Wednesdays but It will be ok. I will be ok. π We all want to be SUPER MOM and do it all but then we realize it is ok not to do it all and focus on what is important. Enjoy those beautiful daughters!
Elizabeth says
I had the exact conversation with a coworker last week about “being bad at everything”. Hopefully it’s just a phase!
Gena says
Thanks for being so honest! It’s so hard to balance it all and feel like your enjoying your life too. It’s great to hear how other bloggers look to keep up with all that life demands. Thanks again!
Lauren Brennan says
Do what you gotta do girl! You’ll be missed on Wednesdays, but we’ll see you on Periscope! :). And even though you thinks you “ramble” I see it as a very real conversation with a friend in the midst of our kids running around… Because you better believe mine are doing the same thing on this end! ?
Brittany says
You have to do what’s right for you and your family! We’ll all still be around and happy you’re not stretching yourself too thin π
Erin @ Her Heartland Soul says
Good for you for taking inventory and re-evaluting your schedule! What is your periscope name? I’d love to follow you!
Becca says
I cut down on how often I posted this summer and it was weirdly hard. I enjoyed having the days off after awhile but for awhile I feel like everyone would be missing it and disappointed. But all my readers kept coming back for the days I did post and no one complained. Now I post at least four days a week and enjoy having the additional day off. I was surprised by how hard it was to stop posting every day. But good for you for seeing it’s too much and taking a small step back.
Alyssa @ renaissancerunnergirl says
Great for you for finding a balance in your life! Wednesday is a good break in the middle of the week π
caitlin says
Rock on! Seriously – great decision. And maybe throw in a WIAWβ¦ but not on Wednesday because that would contradict everything.. but maybe a what I ate whatever day π
LIz says
I was reading your post with baited breath – it sounded an awful lot like those “I’m giving up blogging!” posts, so I’m so relieved to hear that’s not what is happening! Enjoy your Wednesdays with family and hopefully some time for just you. ^_^ xoxo
Laura @ Semi-Vegetarian.com says
So funny, I was just thinking of making the same change! My blog is only about six months old, but I worked up to five days a week because that seems to be the norm. I am thinking of scaling back, too!
Jeannie says
Tell David we will def notice and def miss u lol. I love your blog and all your content and am loving your scopes. Glad your only leaving us on Wednesdays and not permanently!
Parita @ myinnershakti says
I love your blog because it’s written from a very normal and real perspective. You tell it how it is without being extreme in one direction or the other. It’s refreshing!
I think as long as you do what works for you and your family, you’ll be fine. π
Julia @ Lord Still Loves Me says
Brittany, I am just glad you are still blogging! Iβll take what I can get from you. I know I have said this on multiple occasions, but I just want to reiterate how much I have grown simply from reading about your lifestyle. You are not disordered, and you are not obsessive about your health. Coming across you, about two years ago (whoa!), was a breath of fresh air to me. I remember thinking to myself, βif she can do it, I can too.β One less day of writing from you is fine with me as long as I still get to read something. π Iβm also proud of you for acknowledging that you feel this way and are working toward a better solution. You deserve the rest! π
Jessica @ Our Young Adventures says
You do whatcha gotta do! Way to take care of yourself. I can’t imagine blogging 4 days a week, let alone 5! I will just have to read your 4 posts, versus the five now. ? No biggie! Those girls are too cute to miss out on anyway!
Kari says
I love reading your blog so much!! I was worried you were going to say you’re going to stop blogging altogether…you had me scared!!