Hi friend. I am waking up this morning feeling a bit like I have an emotional hangover. Yesterday afternoon I was busy in the kitchen and watched the memorial service for Charlie Kirk. I am sure snippets will be circulated to make it look however people want it to, but as someone who watched the whole thing without commentary, I can tell you the worship music was beautiful, the message of forgiveness was powerful, and the respect for a man that wanted to be best remembered for his faith was inspiring.
I’ve never really gotten into talking about my faith journey in a public way because I think it feels so deeply vulnerable and I don’t feel very equipped to lead anyone else in those conversations. I feel there is so much I’m still exploring and learning myself. However, I have experienced firsthand the peace that Jesus can bring to our hearts and I believe there is true good in the world that we must cling to over evil. Most of that ministry for me is within my four walls and being a wife and mom, getting to serve my family in those capacities, is the honor of my life.
That’s all I really have to share at the moment as the emotional hangover is sincere, and I also have something of a stuffy left ear. I think I need a trip to the chiropractor. And that feels like the perfect transition to acknowledge that I’m 42 now!
Biking into 42: A Birthday Weekend
We celebrated my birthday this weekend with the one thing I’ve had on my list to do since we moved here last November- bike the Swamp Rabbit Trail! The Swamp Rabbit Trail is a scenic 28+ mile multi-use greenway that follows an old railroad line through downtown Greenville, Furman University, and up to Travelers Rest. It’s popular for walking, biking, and running and features parks, cafes, and beautiful views along it.

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Friday afternoon we drove to our starting point in TR, mounted our bikes, and started our journey into town. We rode by cute homes, the famous Swamp Rabbit Grocery, the Commons and Unity Park, and ended 9 miles down the trail right in downtown Greenville. Biking over the bridge at Reedy Creek Falls with my fam was a birthday dream come true! We sat outside at Camp and had a couple small plates, got ice cream from Jeni’s next door, then loaded back up and biked the 9 miles back to the truck.
It. Was. Awesome. We biked close to 20 miles and the kids did great. In fact, at the end they wanted to go a little further, so the girls and I biked through Traveler’s Rest and David picked us up on the other side. Our bottoms were sore but our hearts were happy; both kids have already asked when we can do it again. Not counting stops, it took took us between 60-75 minutes on each 9 mile stretch; it’s mostly flat. I highly recommend the experience!







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Saturday was my actual birthday and I spent it cheering on my girls in their soccer games, cheering on Georgia Tech to a victory (Georgia didn’t have a game this week), and enjoying an afternoon and evening with my in-laws who came over to help celebrate. Being close to family is such treat that we’ve never gotten to experience before. Wish I could convince my mom to move closer, too (mom, hint hint ;)).
David sous-vided some steaks, Hailey made a Caesar salad, Kaitlyn baked a cookie cake, and we all enjoyed chatting and being together. My favorite part of any birthday is the cards and I got some special, homemade cards with loving words that I’ll keep on my dresser. Truly, the best.



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And now another treat- it’s officially fall! I hope to bake some pumpkin muffins to celebrate and snap a few pictures of my fall decor to take you on a fall home tour. I still very much feel like my home is a work in progress, but it’s fun to share the journey.
I hope your first day of fall is a good one. Join me in romanticizing one thing about it. Light the candle or crank up the AC and enjoy a bowl of soup or notice how the tips of a few trees are starting to turn red. I also highly recommend searching for “cozy fall jazz” on your music app of choice. I’ve been playing it as often as I can and it creates an instant feeling of cozy.
Thanks so much for stopping by <3
Next, check out my Fall Home Decor Tour 2025.

Grateful Kae says
I’ve been borderline obsessed with the “cozy fall jazz” stations on YouTube, haha! Totally inspired by you mentioning the idea in a past post. I’ve been playing one on my 2nd screen while I work (when I’m not in meetings, obviously! Insisting on bringing my fall jazz scenes into meetings might be a bit much. 😅).
And happy birthday! I didn’t realize we are almost exactly the same age! I’ll be 42 on 10/17. 🙂 The biking especially looked so fun. I’ve been wanting to get out biking and we never made it happen this summer…. maybe we’ll still find a way to squeeze it, though I’m not sure it will happen as my in-laws arrive tonight and are staying for the next 3 weeks. 🙃 Will be great overall and also, 3 weeks is a long time. ha.
Brittany Dixon says
Oh wow 3 weeks is a stretch! Hopefully it allows to get into a normal-ish rhythm though so everyone can have a little elbow room?
I’ve been trying to make this bike thing happen for 10 months so I understand how hard it can be to make it happen, but pull the birthday card and do it! It was so much fun. Happy early birthday; 1983 was a fabulous year to be born 🙂
Joanna says
Happy birthday! Sounds like you had a fun weekend. I was listening to the memorial too and I agree the music and words had me in tears. Yes to a fall home decor tour, love the decor on the fireplace mantle!
Brittany Dixon says
Thank you! Hobby Lobby’s finest 🙂
Kathy says
Sounds like a fabulous birthday weekend and your birthday activity sounds great. I always like to pick an activity too to do on my birthday (October fall walk or the like). This year though I will be on a catamaran in the BVI. 😉 I think you are familiar with that style as well. 😉 I just got lucky with the timing of this trip.
Wishing you a fun filled birthday week!!!
Brittany Dixon says
You will be on a catamaran in the BVIs!!! Ahhh I’m SO excited for you! What an incredible way to celebrate a birthday.
Which islands are you most excited to see? Let me know if you have any questions 🙂
Kathy says
Sorry it took me so long to reply…I was waiting on the itinerary. We are participating in a 10 boat floatilly. 🙂 We board in Nanny Cay, then off for the week to Norman Island, Jost Van Dyke, Scrub Island/Marina Cay, Anagada, Leverick Bay & Cooper Island.
We’ve been to Jost Van Dyke/White Bay a few times and to Norman Island. We will also be checking out the Baths this time.
I welcome any tidbits you would like to share. 🙂
Brittany Dixon says
I’m SO excited that you get to visit The Baths! Get there early if you can; mooring balls fill up quickly and the baths get busier as the day goes on.
Hiking to the bubbly pool on Jost Van Dyke is usually worth it but check with locals to see when the prime bubbly times are 🙂
Book for dinner spot for lobster on Anegada early, too, as those fill up fast. So delicious though! We’ve always gotten a ride to the Anegada Beach Club (other side of the island) because walking the beach there is so beautiful. You’re going to have an amazing time!!
Sherry says
Loved your post about your birthday weekend. I wish I could have watched Charlie Kirk’s service but ever since dad was sick and passed away, it’s like my heart can’t take anymore sadness. I can watch, or listen to short summaries, but it is too much hurt to immerse myself in it.
The next time y’all do the swamp rabbit, I would love to come up and ride with you! I may not want to move there at this point, but I don’t mind driving three hours to have dinner with you🥰
You make 42 look fabulous!!
Brittany Dixon says
Wise not immerse yourself <3 and the girls are saying please come up so we can all go ride it again, with you! 🙂 Love you, Mama!
Kelli H says
Happy belated birthday!! That bike ride looks so fun! I always start listening to jazz in the fall. Lighting a candle while I make dinner is such a cozy vibe too. We’re celebrating with the most beautiful weather 75 and a light breeze and some chicken red lentil curry soup.
Brittany Dixon says
75 with a breeze sounds dreamy! Hoping we get a few of those days here, soon. And curry soup sounds SO good. Gosh I love soup season.
Karen A. says
As an avid cyclist, I love this post. And as a nurse in training,, I want to put out a gentle reminder that while the law does not require that adults wear helmets while biking, it’s still a really good idea. Not only is it good safety role modeling for our kids, but honestly the last thing anyone needs–or wants–is a bad head injury! I’m so glad you guys had a great ride, and I’m a little jealous of that fantastic trail! Happy Birthday!
Brittany Dixon says
I agree! I said we needed to wear helmets but we didn’t have any that fit (a piece had fallen out of mine and David’s was lost in the move). It’s on our list to get soon! 🙂
Karen A. says
Yikes! Glad it’s on your list. 😉 And again, I am so envious of that gorgeous trail! I have a decent little trail for my commute to school, but it’s nothing like the Swamp Rabbit!
Laura says
DItto to the stuffy ear! What are you doing to treat it? The school nurse recommended a garlic ear drop from sprouts. And my ENT friend said sudafed… It hurts!
Brittany Dixon says
The drops!! My friend dropped me off some garlic mullein drops and I put them in twice (laid on my side and let it get in there which felt funny). It doesn’t hurt anymore. I bought my own. Here is the one she had: https://amzn.to/46C4vYO
SHU says
happy birthday!!!! that bike ride looks amazing. family bike rides are so special – we had a successful one this summer in New Hampshire, even with G being 7! here’s to many more and YES embracing every aspect of fall you can 🙂
Brittany Dixon says
Thanks, Sarah! <3
Anne says
Belated birthday wishes from across the pond!