I’ve had so much fun with these Instagram Q&A sessions! You can see part one here and part two here, and today is the third and final post. However, I love doing reader request posts so always feel free to send me questions via comments, emails, facebook, or instagram. David is working on answering all the questions you sent him too (and gaining a new respect for the time it takes to write a blog- wink wink) and I can’t wait to read them and share them with you!
What are your final thoughts of Invisalign?
I underwent a 9-10 month Invisalign treatment last year (you can read more about it here). Though it wasn’t fun having attachments on my teeth and plastic in my mouth, I’m SO glad I did it for a few reasons. 1) The twisted bottom tooth that was driving me crazy is now straight. 2) The nighttime retainer acts like a mouth guard and I haven’t woken up once with a headache from clenching or grinding since having Invisalign. This is a big deal since my dentist told me my teeth were way too worn down for what they should be at my age, so I feel better that I’m preventing further damage.
I was tempted by the braces route (well, not really, I already had 5 years of them and didn’t want them again), because I could have had rubber bands and such to help pull my lower jaw forward and reduce some of the gum line in my smile but you know what, it just wasn’t worth it to me. I like my smile just fine and love not having the jaw pain anymore!
dress (Target- sold out- similar) // shoes
What are your favorite things to do in our area with the girls? Activities or day trips?
If you asked the girls, they’d always answer with Discovery Place Kids. I agree, Discovery Place (all their facilities) are awesome. We love the fountains at Birkdale Village, the local library, the playground at Ramsey Creek Park with the kid zipline feature, Patterson Farms, Lazy 5 Ranch, The White Water Center. Honestly anywhere they can just run around and I don’t have to worry too much about keeping them quiet. I have a list of things we want to do this summer that I’m posting on Thursday, but I can also hope to make it to a zoo and maybe try out Carowind’s splash pad!
Patterson Farms during Strawberry Picking
How do you balance social media and being with the girls? How do you not get sucked down the rabbit hole?
This is an ongoing challenge for me, but really what I focus on the most is not to be on my phone or computer while they are around. Easier said than done. But I do my blog work in the early morning before they are awake or between 1pm-2pm, which is quiet time at our house. I also have a wonderful sitter that watches the girls one full day a week and I do everything I can during that time. Sometime I get it all done and other times I am behind, but I really try to put my priorities into practice and my family comes first. It’s not easy though and is why I am reevaluating what our schedule should look like over the next couple of months. It’s always changing and honestly I just do the best I can.
My biggest tip to myself is to just not check email or social while I am with them, even if I have a down minute, because then I go down the rabbit hole thinking Oh, I’ll just email her back/respond real quick (which never ends up being real quick).
The exception to this is instagram stories because I love showing snaps of our daily life, but it’s why I’m inconsistent with stories. Some days I’m all about it and others I just want to stay unplugged. How is that for the world’s longest inconclusive answer? HA.
How did you approach healthy living when you worked at a desk job?
I drank Diet Coke and ate Lean Cuisines. I’m serious, but it’s also when I gave up Diet Coke cold turkey after the machine was out one day and I found myself really upset about it. It made me feel like I was addicted and it freaked me out so I quite cold turkey. Still, I was health-minded (even though I still had plenty to learn) and I always ate breakfast before work, had healthy snacks at the cubicle, and avoided the break room goodies as much as I could. I learned I didn’t always have to say yes to donut day. Also, I walked to work (back when I lived in Buckhead) which was nice and my cubicle mate (how I miss my friend, Sonya!) and I would take walks at lunch, usually over to stores we could shop at, which wasn’t good for our wallets, but was great for adding activity into our days!
What are yours and David’s love languages? How do you address them in the relationship?
Can you believe I’ve never actually read the book? I would guess based on what I’m heard, that mine is words of affirmation and that his is quality time or physical touch (like every man ever). Communication is my jam, so I’m pretty open about asking for what I need if I’m not getting it (babe, I really need you to see everything I’m doing here — nothing like fishing for compliments right??). It’s kind of a joke, but it really does fill up my love tank (oh Vicki, what a saying) to hear that I am appreciated.
For David, we try to keep date days and nights a regular occurrence, but if things get busy we at least make sure we sit and chat together after the girls go down. No TV, and often on the back porch, sometimes with an adult beverage. It’s just nice to have an hour or two to catch up, connect, and feel involved in what is going on in both our lives.
Dress (sold out- similar)
What are your favorite self-care rituals?
My quiet time in the mornings. Cooking with wine. Getting facial treatments and pedicures. Giving myself a break when I need it. I’m very in tune with my need for sleep and my ability to burn out if I am doing too much, so when I feel that coming on, everything else takes a backseat. It may sound selfish, but it’s true: if mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.
How do you guys budget?
Right now we use Mint.com and I’d say it’s OK. I’m not wild about it but it gets the job done. We also go over our finances (retirement, savings, cash flow, investments, income projections, etc) with a fine tooth comb about every 2-3 months. Having us both fully understand where we are and what are goals are keeps us motivated to stick to our budget and not get too crazy with spending on frivolous things.
What are your 5/10/15 year plans for life and travel?
Oh man, I’d love to dig into this with you guys, but I’m not really at a place I can right now. However, I will say we want to do a lot of travel as a family, which is what keeps us laser focused on our financial goals and is a big factor of why we have completed our family with our two sweet girls.
What kind of eating plan do you follow? Do you eat snacks?
I mostly follow my mom’s lead which has always been everything in moderation. Nothing is off-limits to me, though I limit beans just because they don’t make my stomach feel it’s best. I’d say I mostly focus on a paleo-ish (plus cheese and whole grains) diet because it makes me feel my best. A typical day would be eggs and veggies for breakfast, rice and veggie bowl with protein of some sort for lunch, and a balanced dinner of a protein, vegetables, and potatoes or rice.
I do eat snacks, but not very often. If I do eat snacks, it’s usually popcorn, an apple, or some carrots and hummus.
How often do you workout?
If I hit three days a week I consider it a win! And that’s intentional exercise (Burn Boot Camp). Outside of that though, I am pretty active with laundry, playing outside with the kids, swimming around the pool or lake, doing chores around the house, etc.
Do you have any upcoming travel plans?
I am in a wedding in July in Saratoga Springs, NY. I’ve never been to that part of the country and am SO excited! David and I will get to visit a horse track and celebrate my friend’s fabulous wedding! That’s all that is on the books at the moment, though we hope to fit in a quick family trip to the beach at some point too. Maybe in late August?
What hobbies do you enjoy?
I think time for hobbies is pretty limited at this stage of life. If I had the time, I’d love to take some cooking classes, learn more about photography, and attempt a real garden. I hope to try paddle boarding this summer and I enjoy kayaking and hiking and would like to do more of those too. I also like putting together our annual family albums, but my goodness I am behind on that right now!
I’d love to hear how you balance eating well (I’m constantly struggling to find balance) and also a healthy fitness lifestyle. I am super good at one and the other drops. I’ve learned not to be so extreme in one or the other, but I like how you eat & it’s not a restrictive style. It helps to motivate me!
Thank you for that compliment! I feel like it took m a lot of years to get where I am right now but feel like I’m in a good spot. I know “intuitive eating” gets thrown around a lot, but I really feel that is where I am. I eat when I’m hungry and stop when I’m full. I focus on the foods that make me feel good; sometimes that’s a hearty salad and sometimes it’s a plate of seafood linguine. I now view my health through a wide scope that encompasses physical and mental wellness and that means that another salad or a tough workout isn’t always the “healthiest” choice for me on any given day. Letting go of the all or nothing mind set had been the healthiest thing I’ve ever done for myself. I also always keep Michael Pollen’s words in the back of my mind: Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.
Thank you all for asking so many wonderful questions. I love the way it makes these posts feel like a conversation.
I’d love for you to answer one of the questions in the comments to let me get to know you a little bit better too!
And if you have any last minute questions to sneak to David, leave them below and I’ll add them to his list 😉
Jennifer says
If you’re not loving Mint, I wanted to share what we use that we love. It’s called You Need a Budget (YNAB). A lot of Dave Ramsey peeps use it even though it’s not his sponsored software (his is Every Dollar). It’s SUPER user-friendly and has really helped get my husband and I on track with our budget! You can also download the app for your phone.
It’s not free, but it’s very affordable and they have a monthly payment plan of like $5/month or an annual one (it’s like $50) which saves you a little $. If you use my link to sign up you’ll get a free month! 🙂 https://ynab.com/referral/?ref=h6B3mGNlRKFCKogS&utm_source=customer_referral
I swear I don’t work for them or anything, I just am super thankful that I found something that works for me and felt the need to share! 🙂
laura leane says
i second this! ynab is AMAZE! i saved $300 my first month and a friend i recommended it to saved $1,000. we had both been using other platforms for our budgeting. ynab makes everything so simple and really gives peace of mind.
Maria says
Ahh, that Telluride photo. I didn’t even have to read the caption! Take me back!
I feel like everyone went through a Lean Cuisine + Diet Coke phase after college, with our first jobs. I worked in HR and all of the ladies were doing it! While I did quit Diet Coke cold turkey after becoming pregnant, but it’s still so hard! You’re right, it’s addictive! At least I’m super picky when I do drink it – only from a glass bottle or over pebble ice, from a fountain. Cans and plastic bottles – nope!
Question for David: what is your number one tip for a soon-to-be dad? Make mom happy, right? 😉
Meika says
Loved these Q&A’s! I live in NY and have family who live up in the Saratoga area. We’ve had many a fun night there! If you can, find time to make it to the coast. Nothing beats a quintessential New England coastal town in the summer months. There are plenty of options within a few hours’ drive of central NY. Enjoy!
Brittany Dixon says
We won’t make it there on this short trip but the coast is SO high up on my list. I hear it’s absolutely gorgeous. One day… 🙂
Erica says
Thanks for the local list! Looking forward to seeing more of your summer activities with the girls! (As a local, I’m a little biased on this). I know I’m not getting my toddler out to new experiences as often as I probably should, so I love new ideas.
Maggie says
I’m from the Saratoga area and I think you are going to love it. Such a quaint town with great food, cute shops and awesome people watching, especially at the Track (what us natives call it).
Hope you have an awesome time in my native NY!
Katie says
I would absolutely LOVE to hear how you manage burn out- have you written about that before?
Brittany Dixon says
Oh I’m sure I have at some point because it certainly happens! Usually I try to decrease our commitments, back off of social media, and get some extra sleep. Sometimes easier said than done 😉
JOHN J STATHAS says
Love Languages: You haven’t read it?! BUT, you apparently intuitively live it. Perhaps you’ll be incorporating more of relationship advice into your “healthy slice” offerings, Counselor! Lovely picture of you and dancer Hailey, and the rest of course. Love the pics!
Heather says
I am from upstate NY and it’s beautiful in the summer. Not sure if you are staying at the Gideon Putnam, but it’s an awesome resort. You will have a blast I am sure!
Brittany Dixon says
I think we are at a Hilton Garden Inn or something similar. Though that resort sounds awesome!
Carole says
Hi!
I have a question for you and David. How do you find balance as a family on the weekends? My husband works a lot, long hours and I stay home with my 15 months old and 3 1/2 year old and it is not easy. I always feel like i NEED to get out on the weekends because I have the kids all the time but I think I am not always fair as he works hard during the week too…Any tips would be appreciated as we can’t hire a babysitter and family is not helpful. Thanks!
Carole
Erica says
Thanks for posting about Invisalign, I’ve been meaning to ask you about it! I started mine in March and am on tray 8 out of 25. I can already see a difference in certain areas. It’s a pain with all the flossing and brushing (and I”m pregnant so eating ALL the time), but I think it’s worth it. I never had braces as a kid so this was all new to me! Did you have to do any refining trays? I’m hoping I’m happy with the end result and can just get my retainer and move on 🙂
Brittany Dixon says
I actually didn’t need any refining trays- hooray!! I hear that’s rare but I was so ready to be done and was happy with my results. I did end up wearing my last tray for an extra week or so before switching to night time only though. Hope your experience is the same 🙂