Can you believe the end of August is today? Tomorrow begins a big month- September. Five days after my baby girl turns 1, I’ll turn 29, officially entering my last year in my 20’s.
30 used to sound so old to me, so grown up. In many senses, I guess it sounded that way to me because now at almost 29, I am pretty much grown up. I have a husband, a daughter, a dog, a house- all very adult things.
In many ways, though, I don’t feel grown up at all. I still get silly after a glass of wine. I still turn cartwheels in the yard when I’m outside with Hailey. I still have big dreams for adventures I want to have in the future.
In other ways, though, I feel very grown up. At this point in my life I am more comfortable with who I am than I’ve ever been before. There are truths I believe in that I’m not afraid to state. I know who I am and I know what I believe.
I believe in…
Promoting what you love instead of bashing what you hate.
Asking for what you want, even if the answer may be no.
Manners.
Live and let live.
Turning strangers into friends.
Self reliance.
Enjoying and savoring food, drinks and life.
The power of positive thinking.
It’s a short list, but it’s a solid list of ideals that I strive for. At times I fall short. That’s why I try to remind myself of these beliefs often and live my life accordingly.
What do you believe in?
Hanna says
Have you always been such a positive person? I think that’s the reason I love reading your blog everyday because you are always so positive.
Brittany says
I’ve certainly always tried to be a positive person, but I’m probably better at in now than during my teenage years. I do my best to acknowledge all the good things in my life, which keeps me grateful. I think being grateful keeps me positive. And another thing I’m grateful for today? Your sweet comment- thank you!
Kelly says
I agree with Hanna, you keep me reading day after day. I believe there is going to be something positive waiting, even if you have had months of negative things happening.
Erica says
I’m so glad you said manners – it’s truly a lost art in this generation.
I believe in happiness that doesn’t infringe on others and being kind.
Brittany says
Being kind- yes! Can’t believe I forgot that one. Thanks for reminding me. It’s amazing the good that can come out of just being kind.
blackhuff says
I agree with Hanna. You are such a positive person and I really hope you stay this way.
Gina @ Running to the Kitchen says
I believe in under eye concealer for when you do turn 30 that makes you feel like you’re 25 and tweezers to pick out the multiplying gray hairs. 😉
Just kidding (well, not really, those ARE important) but love your list. Promoting what you love instead of bashing what you hate is something I need (and want) to work on more. So well said.
Whitney says
GOD.
Hallie@ChasingHallie says
September is indeed a very big month! Happy early bday to you and Hailey.
And I still turn cartwheels in the front yard and dance to bad rap music in the living room. Its what keeps us young at heart. : )
Stefanie says
Happy birthday month to you and H! Enjoy 29!
My philosophy has always been age is a just a number. It doesn’t determine how old you actually are or have to act. I turned 30 earlier this year and it didn’t even faze me because I don’t let it define me. Another thing I remind myself when my silly brain starts thinking I’m “old” – not everyone gets to mke it to 30 so I need to enjoy every minute that much more for those who didn’t get the chance.
Erin @ The Grass Skirt says
I was nervous about turning 30 too, but I can honestly say that it just 30 and 31 were the best years of my life. Trust me, you’ll love it- and you can still do plenty of cartwheels. 🙂
Erin @ The Grass Skirt says
I was nervous about turning 30 too, but I can honestly say that 30 and 31 were the best years of my life. Trust me, you’ll love it- and you can still do plenty of cartwheels. 🙂
Lisa says
This is beautiful wisdom for a Friday post! I love how positive you come across in your posts! I definitely believe in the power of positive thinkings, it does wonders on how I feel about myself day in and day out.
Sounds like it will be a big month:) I’m totally a kid at heart, I love childish movies, cartwheels, and playgrounds. ha ha.
Happy birthday month to you and Hailey!!
John J. Stathas says
Great post, Brittany. I can attest to your positive stance on life personally beyond your blog world. Your mother’s genes are serving you well! A better way to live for sure.
Jessie says
Great post girl. Continue smiling & being positive.. it’ll get you far in life <3
Danica @ It's Progression says
love this…I also believe in good manners and respect, which seems to be something that’s sadly underrated in our society. One polite comment or gesture can completely turn someone’s day around though!
chelsey @ clean eating chelsey says
My mom has always said it’s not about how old you actually are, but about how young you actually feel!
Kristen @ notsodomesticated says
What day is your birthday? I’ll be 29 on the 7th. 🙂 We’re kinda birthday buddies! 😉
Brittany says
I’ll be 29 on the 20th! We are birthday buddies! …do you celebrate all month long, too? I do. Happy birthday month!! 🙂
Jen@HealthyFoodandFamily says
I love this, especially the one about promoting what you love instead of bashing what you hate! i really wish more people had that attitude!!!!
I’ll be 32 on the 9th, some days I feel like that’s “so” old, other days I feel like I’m still 22 🙂
Ksenija @ Health Ninja says
That’s some serious grown up thinking going on there – my grown up thoughts for September are mostly about the start of my MA program and finding a flat for my boyfriend and me, enough grown up thinking for this year I hope 😉